lol
pulled the tri sli this morning and hooked it up on the classified, which was a pita since the banchetto wasn't setup for water at the time. Booted but no pic so I did some jumper moving and found cards 1 and 3 in the array weren't working

Everything ran fine using only the middle card except the hard wired lan was dead
Pulled it all of and put the 680 back on the classy and everything works fine again on that one.
Guess I'll have to try the 680 in the P67 just to see if that's the issue. AX1200 PSU that's virtually new and all the voltages read good so it's looking like the cards, but, that really don't explain why it wouldn't even goot
Just got to figure out how many parts I'm gonna have to RMA now